Seeds of Life Montessori Academy
The importance of daily routine and schedules!
Mar 25, 2020

I know this is not a normal time and everyone around the world is trying to adapt and find the best way to cope through our current situation.


Now that we find ourselves working from home and trying to keep our kiddos in a normal routine. But what does NORMAL mean right now?…. Our kids know that this is not normal… they know that there is a lot going on and things are constantly changing. They can feel and experience our worries, fears and the craziness of being #stayhome….


OK, so what can we do? You may still need to work, and finish all the regular things to keep the house running…..except now, those regular household needs and chores are anything but regular.…. Despite these challenges, keeping the routine is really important, especially for our kiddos! If they see us in our “new” normal routines, accomplishing typical tasks in a calm and relaxed way and establishing a plan for the day, they are going to feel safer and not pick up on and experience as much of our fear, worries, and stress.


The calmness of the caregivers will be the buffer to help our kiddos when chaos is all around.


Our energy and tension will be passed on to our kiddos……whether we want it too or not.


OK, now let’s start!!!


First, let’s set up a routine for our kids:


  • Create a schedule for the day
  • Schedule in their wake up time (depends of the age)
  • Breakfast, lunch, snacks….
  • Arts and crafts
  • Playtime alone
  • Playtime with parents
  • If they have online classes, put this on the schedule as well
  • Naptime (little ones)
  • Exercise (IMPORTANT)
  • Video games 
  • Walk 
  • You can add different things that are appropriate for your home and capabilities


Remember: DO NOT FORGET to schedule Unstructured free playtime!!!


Don’t get crazy about academics, check what the school has planned for your child and add it to the schedule.


If you have younger kids and you want them to be more independent about food, prepare a basket with the food that they can eat during the day, like a banana, an apple, bars, small snacks, etc). Because I have older kids (boys), I set up a rule about food…. WHY? Because being all day home they can “graze” all day and literally eat you out of house and home! This also gives you the ability to have a little more control of making sure the right food is being eaten at the right time to reduce waste and balance their diet a little more.


My rule is:


  • Breakfast 
  • Snack
  • Lunch
  • Snack
  • Dinner 


For snacks, I use the breakfast bar and set up bowls or baskets with snack bars, fruits and other snacks that they can eat during the day. But that’s all…..when it’s gone, it’s gone! So they learn some self-control and the principle of saving for later and rationing (its not a bad word, but an important principle) throughout the day.


It sounds crazy, but this makes my life so much easier and keeps my kids in a normal routine.


OF COURSE…. Your schedules have to be flexible….. Flexibility is important!


Expectations are important for our kiddos, when they know what you want and what is expected in specific situations, it will make them feel safer and happier.


These expectations have to be SIMPLE….. don’t make rules and expectations too complicated! And remember…… it needs to be based on your child’s age!


If you want your kiddo to clean up their toys….. Set up the rules about playing and cleaning up before they start…. Teach them how to do it together….. and FOLLOW through!!!


These expectations and routines are really important for your older kids around video games as well!


Be open to revising the list of rules as needed.


What else we can do during this time?


PLAY!….Yes, let’s play more, especially with our kiddos….. 


Play is the best neuro-exercise in the world.


The type of play that exercises the nervous system is when we engage with them in their play and follow their lead….. let them choose the topic, they will show you how they need to play and what they need to play with…..


Let them express what they need through their play….. Play is the best therapy for our kiddos during this time…


Young children communicate through play. They are free to express their emotional experiences and feelings.


Through play children learn and develop:


Cognitive skills – like math and problem-solving in a pretend grocery store physical abilities – like balancing blocks and running on the playground new vocabulary – like the words they need to play with toy dinosaurs social skills – like playing together in a pretend car wash literacy skills – like creating a menu for a pretend restaurant


Good luck and try to see this as an opportunity (as much as possible J) to develop a different kind of close and intimate relationship with your children!!! For example, I’m loving the way my oldest son and I have come together in an amazing new way during this experience!


Maria Eva Chaffin

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“My vision of the future is no longer of people taking exams and proceeding on that certification from the secondary school to the university, but of individuals from one stage of independence to a higher, by means of their own activity, through their own effort of will, which constitutes the inner evolution of the individual.” -Dr. Maria Montessori Montessori is perhaps best known for its educational offerings from children aged 3-6. Though other programs for infants, toddlers, and elementary-aged children are also fairly popular and easy to find in many areas, programs for adolescents remain relatively scarce. Many Montessori families approaching the final years of local elementary offerings find themselves asking, “What’s next?” While Montessori-educated children have overwhelmingly positive transitions when they graduate to other conventional schools, it’s only natural to wonder how we might extend the experience for our children. 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These two needs of the adolescent: for protection during the time of the difficult physical transition, and for an understanding of the society which he is about to enter to play his part as a man.” "…derive great personal benefit from being initiated in economic independence . For this would result in a "valorization" of his personality, in making him feel himself capable of succeeding in life by his own efforts and on his own merits, and at the same time it would put him in direct contact with the supreme reality of social life . We speak therefore of letting him earn money by his own work.” "Therefore work on the land is an introduction both to nature and to civilization and gives a limitless field for scientific and historic studies. If the produce can be used commercially this brings in the fundamental mechanism of society, that of production and exchange, on which economic life is based. This means that there is an opportunity to learn both academically and through actual experience what are the elements of social life. We have called these children the "Erdkinder" because they are learning about civilization through its origin in agriculture. They are the "land-children."" For more select quotes from her writing, visit this helpful AMI page . Alternately, copies of From Childhood to Adolescence can be purchased here . Considering Adolescent Development Much information can be found about Montessori’s concept of the planes of development. Children from ages 12-18 are considered to be in the third plane. Montessori education is based largely on consideration of developmental markers for various age groups, so the ideals of the Erdkinder arose from the following characteristics Montessori observed to be standard during this stage in life. 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This would allow them the following opportunities: A level of independence from their families while receiving support from adults Opportunity to engage in physical work that would support their developmental growth while teaching worthwhile skills Gardening, animal husbandry, and handcraft skills Engagement in a microeconomy: students work to earn money via the farm and budget for common purchases Community connection by way of selling their goods to the public Authentic combining of traditional academic learning with personal interests Access to growth and experimentation in the arts Support while refining their senses of independence and purpose within society Erdkinder in Practice Today As mentioned above, it is much easier to find a Montessori middle school program than it is to find one for high school students. They do exist, however, and both types of programs have found creative ways to achieve the same goals as Montessori’s original ideas. It’s not always possible to create the original farm model (although they do exist, such as at this well-respected school in Ohio ). Schools have included modified farming programs on an existing campus or created alternate business models, such as a coffee shop. Hopefully, as interest and understanding continues to grow in the coming years, Montessori adolescent programs will expand. Curious about Montessori? Want to learn more? Contact us today to schedule a tour or discuss whether Montessori is right for your family.
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